Need a Healthy ESCAPE®? Six Science-Backed Self-Care Strategies that Work

Don’t be surprised if re-entry brings with it feelings of anxiety and stress. There are a lot of reasons why that could be.

Dealing with the COVID-19 pandemic for the past year has taken its toll on us both physically and mentally, and although we may be rounding the corner, recovering from the emotional fallout may take some time. Recovery will require us to monitor and pace ourselves, as well as practice effective and essential self-care. Self-care is defined as the deliberate steps we take to tend to our needs too. We know we can take better care of others and our community when we take better care of ourselves.

Listed here are 6 science-backed self-care strategies that work, even during times of extreme stress. If you are looking for a healthy ESCAPE®, follow the tips below.

  1. Exercise – Physical activity is an instant mood booster and stress reducer. Aim to spend some time each day exercising to help circulate stress hormones that can build up and become toxic over time. Brief bursts of exercise to get your heart rate up have been shown to boost our feel-good brain chemicals and help us relax.

  2. Sleep – Aim for quality over quantity. By making sleep and rest a priority, your brain and immune system will thank you. Set a time every evening to begin winding down and prepare your body and brain for sleep. A bedtime routine can be tremendously helpful for sleep induction. Other activities that can help you fall sleep include meditation, relaxing music, reading, a hot shower, or journaling. Try shutting down devices at least an hour before you intend to fall asleep.

  3. Connect – Our brains thrive on social connection, and this can be achieved through virtual contact as well. Staying engaged and connected to others is a critical component of self-care. Aim to spend some time each day doing something socially meaningful or fun. Reach out to loved ones with whom you’ve lost touch. Write letters or emails or post updates on social media. Send videos, or use FaceTime or Skype so you can see a loved one’s face in addition to hearing their voice.

  4. Appreciate – Research has shown gratitude to be critical for enhancing our mental health and well-being. Start by finding 3 things to be thankful for every day. Start a gratitude journal. Write thank-you notes expressing your appreciation for others. A gratitude practice can be very effective for staying grounded in the present moment, which can be helpful for managing anxiety and uncertainty.

  5. Play/Laugh – We often forget to do this when we are anxious or worried, or during times when it may seem uncalled for, but laughter has been shown to increase endorphins, soothe tension, and provide instant stress relief. Watch a funny movie or show. Listen to your favorite comedian. Circulate funny or cute memes and videos among your family and friends. This can also serve as a helpful distraction.

  6. Exhale – Don’t forget to breathe! Meditation and breathing to relax are the most important things you can do to calm your anxieties, reduce your stress, enhance your focus, boost your immune system, and counteract the negative effects of cortisol and adrenaline. Keep it simple – take 3-5 slow breaths, tell yourself to “slow down” or “stay calm” or simply “breathe” and repeat as often as necessary. Regular and intentional breathing has been shown to be a highly effective and all-natural tool to help relieve anxiety and stress.

Be & Stay Well,

Dr. Natalie


Dr. Natalie Christine Dattilo

If we haven’t been properly introduced, I’m a clinical psychologist, an instructor at Harvard Medical School, a girl mom, & owner of an ‘oops’ kitty. I am on a mission to help people understand themselves better in order to take care of themselves better. My approach is straightforward, practical, and rooted in science. I take the ‘woo’ out of self-care and teach you how to cultivate a personalized wellness practice for “real life.”

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